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CAUTION !!
Do not attempt this process on your own.
We all need LOVE, GUIDANCE, MENTORING, A
RESOURCE TEAM (Family, friends, prayer partners), and a
commitment to positive goals and a higher calling for your life.
So go out and create your team, and live life
to the fullest.
The best of your life is the rest of your life
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Remember, life is really rich whether you are or not.
The good old days never were because they are right now.
The past is history, the future is a mystery,
but "TODAY" is a gift from GOD, that's why it's called the
"PRESENT." So live life like you mean it! Because
life is not a dress rehearsal.
I don't know what tomorrow holds, but I do know
who holds tomorrow.
So what's your goal, to make it big or to make
a big difference?
This is "YOUR" life, and "YOU" determine the
outcome. Life and happiness are enjoyed in bits and
pieces daily, it is not a destination that you arrive at and say
"I'm finally here."
Life is a journey, it is worth living when you step out in faith
and know that GOD is behind you every step of the way.
When your past is greater than your future, life
becomes less meaningful and isn't worth living. Well it's time for a new vision.
Your future isn't something that you wait for, your future is
something that you create through your faith, dreams and imagination right now.
Don't wait for your future to arrive, go out and
meet your future and make it come alive with your belief!
Going through life bent over due to life's stress and daily pressures
is no way to live. Standing strong, holding fast, being
faithfully motivated will connect you to a power that will answer all
of your needs.
Live with purpose, live with passion.
"Remember, life is a series of choices, not a series of chances."
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Soul healing, you must
embrace the caring of your own soul in order to feel whole in life. How does mental and spiritual health
affect your physical health? READ MORE .
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Protecting
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The family is the most basic unit of "any" society.
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Homosexuality
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From Gay to Straight, is it possible?
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The Evidence for
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Yes, there is a museum solely dedicated to the factual evidence
of biblical creation.
READ MORE .
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There is also
a Creation Research Society of professionally trained scientist
and laypersons who are firmly committed to revealing the
solid truths of biblically based scientific creation
information.
READ MORE . . .
Now you can take a walk through history, visit the new Creation
Museum and "Prepare to Believe."
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Creating a Life of Joy
"Having Inner Peace"
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Hey see what
happened when GOD spilled the paint? >
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Joy and peace are
found in believing. Happy people don't have perfect lives, they
choose to believe in the best that life offers them each day. Happiness,
hope and peace of mind is a daily choice.
You can choose
to be filled with joy and happiness each and everyday of your
life. Remember, happiness and joy are "YOUR" personal
responsibility to maintain, it is the journey, not the destination
that brings you joy.
Don't wait for things to get better
before you begin to enjoy your life.
Read 6 Practical
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SMILING is infectious; you
catch it like the flu. When someone SMILED at me
today, I started SMILING too. I went around the
corner and someone saw my "GRIN." When he SMILED, I
realized that I'd passed it on to him. I thought about that
SMILE, then realized it's worth. A SMILE just
like mine could travel round the earth. So if you feel a
SMILE begin, don't leave it undetected.
HEY, LET'S START AN EPIDEMIC
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Did you know that it takes only 14
facial muscles to "SMILE" and a whopping 43 facial
muscles to frown. Hey start laughing people, show the world
your great GRIN !! ;o)).
Remember, a merry heart is like good medicine
without the side effects!
So you don't have a naturally happy nature or
disposition? Well, fake it until you make it.
Regularly relive one of your happiest moments and just start
laughing. You'll feel better and you'll be much happier and
healthier if you do.


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Life is an adventure, so go out into the world and catch your
vision. GOD put your vision in a very special place.
Shuuu .., it's a secret, it was
put in side of "YOU." So stop, check your vision and
follow where it leads you. Learn to view life through your
faith not through your circumstance.
Our eyes will only allow us to see as far as our understanding
will take us. But our vision will carry us beyond our
present circumstances into the future that we now hope for.
So create a personal environment that will nurture your visions
growth. Dream BIG and dream abundantly. You have been
given everything you need inside of "YOU" to be what GOD wants you
to be. We are not born to be failures. Keep GOD first
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HOW TO MANAGE YOUR
WORRIES WISELY.
Learn to control
them, don't let them control "YOU."
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Never worry
alone.
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Get the
facts.
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Make a plan.
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Organize your life.
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Father/Mother knew allot.
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In the old
days when my Father/Mother grew up, things sure were
different.
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Feeling sorry for yourself? You need a kick
in the pants. Read this fascinating story about
John P. Foppe, the man born
with no arms. Loose your excuses about why you feel you
can't succeed. He will "ARM" you with a new attitude.
Hey, this story will surely change your life!
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the New Testament is revolution revealed. The online
searchable bible is a tool for reading and researching scripture
online -- all in the language or translation of your choice!
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What happens to a dream deferred? Does it
dry up like a raisin in the sun or fester like a sore and then
run? NO, it becomes a reality when the blessing of GOD's
hand is upon it. Renew your dreams, renew your faith.
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studies of Israel and prophecy. See film of recent and past
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There is only "ONE" Creator.
Without GOD we can't, without us HE won't.
"I AM that I AM." GOD
doesn't do anything, because GOD is everything. GOD is not the great I was, the great I
will be, HE is the great "I AM."
Call this power greater than anyone or
anything whatever you choose. But do call upon it. Pray,
think positive and expect an answer. Call upon this time proven
method, that down through the ages and into this modern time has shown
itself to be the one consistent way to reach beyond ourselves to that
which we hope for.
There is no doubt that PRAYER, FAITH, HOPE,
LOVE and
for many,
FORGIVENESS have awesome powers to calm the mind,
heal the body and bring peace to the soul.
So go to GOD first and then to man as GOD directs. But before
you do, put your trust in the spiritual side of your own nature
through prayer, meditation, supplication, fasting, intuition, that gut
feeling or however you seek
your spiritual center. Then follow that inner guidance as GOD
guides you in
seeking insight, treatment or answers to your most pressing concerns.
GOD is to loving to be unkind and HE is to just to be unfair.
GOD is never out of control. GOD loves us just the way we
are, but he loves us to much to leave us the way we are.
And always remember, you will receive as a result of prayer exactly
what you "think"
(Philippians 4:8), not what you say,
because your thoughts affect your emotions. If you pray for
achievement but think defeat, your words are just an idle saying,
because your heart has already accepted defeat. But if you
practice believing that even as you pray you are receiving GOD's
boundless blessings for whatever you are asking, it will come to you.
Here is where your faith encounters your doubts. So which path
will you choose?
Just believe for what you want. What you
want is yours for the asking. Your faith counts the act done.
Your level of faith depends on you. Remember the power of GOD
within you is greater than the power of evil out side of you.
GOD is not an absentee father, he has been and is always there for us.
GOD has given us free will but he won't force us to come to him, we
are invited to.
Life may be difficult in the natural, but a
relationship with GOD gives us a supernatural way of living a new and
fuller
life. When you learn to "hear" GOD's voice in your life, through prayer
and discernment you are on your path to inner peace, healing and
anything else that your heart desires. GOD speaks
to each of us in the language of our own personal beliefs. GOD
will never lead us astray or leave us feeling alone without his
absolute divine presence. GOD wants us to live long, live
strong and prosperous lives.
So how do you communicate with the absolute?
You open your heart and your mind. Talk to this awesome higher
power as though it were your confidant or your closest friend. A
relationship with GOD is not about Church or rituals. And you
don't need to be religious to feel a connection, but you do need to be
in relationship with GOD to communicate and feel HIS presence.
Religion is only a pseudo form of how humans try to fine GOD.
Religion does not save you. GOD did not create or bring religion
to mankind, GOD brought a kingdom to those who
understand HIS will and for those who have faith and believe. You must learn to develop an intimate
relationship with GOD.
So how do you build that relationship?
Make the commitment to draw near to GOD, the same way that you would
with a person that you want to make friends with. GOD tells us
where to find HIM >>
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- Spend time. Set aside time to build a relationship daily,
through prayer and reading the word of GOD.
- Read the Bible - GOD talks to you
when you read HIS word, you talk to HIM when you pray. This is
the owners manual for your life.
- Listening. Find a quiet place and spend time alone.
- Talk. Say what's in your heart.
Start your life over from this point on. Ask GOD to forgive
you for your mistakes and then forgive yourself. He's always
listening. GOD is not limited in what he can do, GOD is
sovereign, he created the universe and you.
- Be truthful and honest. Always tell the truth no matter
what. GOD does not judge or condemn us for our honesty even
though people do.
Approximately 90% of the earths population believes in a power greater
than themselves and an eternal life. So you are not alone.
Remember, life is not about you, it's about what GOD does through you.
The miracles begin to happen when we allow GOD to work through us. As humans, we will never be able to logically understand the methods
and actions of GOD. GOD is a spiritual being.
GOD is not
bound by the 5 senses of the human experience. HE created the 5 senses. When we come
to end of ourselves and our personal logic, we then learn to just accept the gift of love from GOD and
believe in that which is greater that we. Give GOD your heart and he will give you new life.
If there is a distance between GOD and you, who moved?
GOD loves us unconditionally, but that does not mean that we are not
responsible for the life decisions that we make. Life has rules
and laws, and when you encounter them in the context of your personal
experiences, how you respond to them will determine your success or
failure in life.
For example, if you bring a child into the
world, GOD has forgiven you for bringing that child into the world if
you were not prepared at the time to do so, but you are not excused
from your responsibilities to that child as their parent whether you
are married or not. You are still legally, financially and
morally responsible to your offspring. The government,
taxpayers, family or friends are not responsible for your child.
We must stay filled with hope
and faith.
Deep faith in GOD is not a crutch, it is a foundation for everyday
living. Faith looks beyond the world of impossibilities into a world of all
possibilities. Faith opens your heart and mind and frees your
spirit to be in the presence of GOD. Don't believe the never and forever untruths about life.
Every
negative experience in your life did not come to stay. Expect
things to change because they usually do, nothing stays the same.
Just be prepared through your faith to move beyond the your negative
circumstance and into the absolute positive possibilities of a hopeful
future.
As it has been said countless times "Tough
times don't last, but tough people do." Remember, it is true,
that all things are possible when you believe and you have hope.
No hope, no faith? See what you want through the eyes of your
faith daily. If you have no hope, you can't cultivate your
faith. You must develop tunnel vision when it comes to the hope
and faith of your personal needs.
Sowing the seeds of faith will yield you a
hopeful future. Practice gratitude by take every opportunity to
be grateful for what you do have instead of what you don't have.
This is where GOD does his work. Believe for the best in all of
your circumstances. Greet each day with positive expectancy for
whatever you want. What is impossible with man is absolutely
possible with GOD.
Don't live your life up set and frustrated
about your circumstances. Choose to live in faith, be in GOD's
rest and know that you are in GOD's hands. This is where you
regain your power and place of peace. Learn to embrace the place
where you are even if you are not in the place where you want to be.
Just go with the flow, rise above it, stay in faith about the
situation that you are facing.
This is where GOD will do a working in "YOU"
to develop the inner you. GOD alone is guiding and directing
you. So don't try to figure it all out, just trust and have
faith. It is in the tough times that we grow. Our faith
will carry us through the problem, it won't deliver us from every
problem.
GOD not my will, but let GOD's will be done in my
life. GOD never closes one door without opening another.
But the key to that door is your faith. GOD is merciful, and he does not always let us have our way for our
own good. Staying at peace in the mist of the storm is called
spiritual warfare. Trust and have faith in the good times and
the tough times. Like a loving father GOD will allow each of us
to come to the end of ourselves and HE will still be there with open
arms waiting for us.
Keep your hope alive by being a captive of hope
and faith instead of doubt and worry. If you do your part by believing and having
faith, GOD will do the rest. GOD isn't looking at our ability,
he is looking for your submission and our availability. We are
the vessels that GOD is waiting to fill with HIS purpose.
Life is conquered from within our
minds, not from the hand that life has dealt us.
What we think is what we believe. What you do is what you are.
When you change your thinking, your behavior will change. You can't go forward in life
if you keep looking at your past. What you dwell on daily will
affect your future.
As children of GOD, we are but a link, in an unending genetic chain of events, but
our lives are by no means an accident. We are GOD's
creation and we are truly loved. The dark forces of life are just as real
in the human experience and have come to kill and destroy not to
give you abundant life. Call this negative force what ever you
choose Satan, Lucifer, the dark side etc.
But if we allow ourselves to be captive by our
negative thoughts and negative influences in our lives will be filled with ungodly experiences
regularly. We each are blessed with the ability to over come
our negative circumstances. Read this moving
and encouraging story of John Foppe and see where faith against all
odds can take you. READ
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In the real world
there are times when life will become very overwhelming. We are
never in control, even though control allows us to feel safer when we
believe that we are. But we can learn to control how we feel
about what we are experiencing. The only person that we can
really change and have control over is ourselves, because we have been
given free will.
Remember GOD is always in control. It is
difficult for us as humans to understand the world from beyond our 5
senses. GOD is a spirit who is our spiritual father and from
that spirit comes all love and truth. In contrast, the negative
force is also a spirit and is ever present from which hate and lies
spring forth.
Our daily and collective life experiences will
teach us what we need to know and how to live a full life. But a
calm sea does not produce an experienced sailor, life will have it's
challenges. It is our walk in faith that we must learn or
relearn that will carry us thru these experiences. Life is a
true test of one's faith and convictions.
Yet, we must each look
within ourselves for that something that restores our soul daily,
which then allows us to reenter the world and to face our many
challenges in a healthy way. Our search for a soul restoring
experience that we truly long for can begin and end with our faith.
We humans are spiritual beings trying to have a human
experience, longing to find our way
back home, where we will feel safe and secure in our fathers arms.
GOD does not judge us by the worlds standards, so we will never be
good enough or we will never do anything bad enough in the spiritual
eyes of GOD to gain or loose his love. We are judged by GOD's
law only. Love and forgiveness are at the top of the list. Remember people will always fail you
and human truth is very unreliable.
So our lives will not be
renewed without the love, grace and the mercy of GOD daily.
It is a gift waiting for us to claim. Living in the past ties us
to a negative future. That is why the power of love is so sought
after and continuously sung and written about in every culture and
past civilizations. We all want to give and receive love
unconditionally. Because love truly does conquer all.
Life is work.
And whose job is it to determine the course? YOURS.
We've got to learn how to grow up
without giving up. Life is measured by what you had to
overcome to get the success in life that you desire and deserve. When you
strive to overcome your daily life challenges and succeed, that is
success.
We all need a road
map or a compass to direct out lives. Without positive direction
we will get lost. Remember, your life is your job, not someone else's.
Where does that job begin? It begins with how you think.
Renewing your mind daily elevates you to a place to realize your
divine purpose.
So what is your calling? GOD has given
each one of us a gift, a purpose and a mission in
life. And you don't have to give up your gifts, you just need
repurpose your life with your GOD given gifts.
HE has also given us a brain to think with and a bottom to sit on.
Heads you win, tails you loose. So get moving!
Remember, a career is what you pay for, a calling is what you're made
for. So what is yours? How do
you discover yours?
Start with what brings you joy in a healthy
GOD centered way. Through prayer ask GOD to direct you and guide
you along your path. If you can't feel it at this moment, just
believe it. It's yours for the asking. Start with
forgiving and loving yourself and others. This will open your
life to receive your purpose, recognize your gifts and embrace your
mission.
What is GOD's message to each of us?
"Call" for what you need in faith. Call the things that are not
as if they already were. Talk about the way you want to be, not
what you are right now. GOD wants you to believe it before you
see it, that's called faith. Call GOD's favor into your life.
If you are ill, "Let the weak say I am strong." If you
have no money, believe that you will be blessed to be a lender and not
a borrower. These things (problems, illness, issues, negative
experiences) didn't come to stay, they came to pass.
To see your dreams come to pass, call into
your life what GOD has promised you. Change your inner self
image with your words. Say something positive about
yourself daily. Declare good things over your life right now.
Use your positive words to bless your life, because negative words
will curse your life. We all have dreams and desires, because
GOD gave us these visions.
Listen to your words, you are prophesying
your future right now. There is power in what we say.
Speak a blessing over your life. Speak words of faith and victory
into your own life daily. Strive to have your best life right
now. Use your words to change your situation not tomorrow but
right now. Say daily, I am a victor not a victim. Write
down your visions and plant them into your daily life.
So with each breath that we are allow to take,
we must in faith act in love. Is it hard? You bet it is.
Is the effort ultimately worth it? Absolutely, without question!
Why? Because that is the place that GOD has called us all to
come. GOD is love, GOD is hope. Because it is in that
place where we find peace that passes all understanding. So how
do you do it? Fake it until you make it, practice makes
perfect, put your best foot forward.
Call upon every cliché that you have ever
heard or learned reading GOD's word daily to get the job done. What is the job?
Building "YOUR" faith to renew you mind daily. You have to be
willing to stand up, come out of the stand and get into the game that
we call life with a new vision for yourself.
We all have a GOD shaped hole in our souls
that only GOD can fill. You can't fill it with food, alcohol,
drugs, sex or anything else. GOD is and has always been there
just waiting for us to ask him in to fill our personal voids.
One of life's greatest challenges
is to define ourselves and find our life's calling in a positive and
"healthy" way. We must at every opportunity, attempt to
understand who we are and why we are here before we know where we are
going. No matter how your life started, you choose your path in
life, because we have all been given choice. As we choose, GOD
reveals his plan for you. If we make poor choices, our lives
will reflect that choice and hopefully we learn better.
We must learn to navigate the wilderness of
our life experiences. Life is filled with personal lessons that we
must in turn pass on as wisdom to those who follow us on this
magnificent journey that we call life. We must find joy in life
along the way by nurturing our visions and nourishing our soul, and
not just our physical body. Because happiness and contentment is
not some future destination, it is what we should be striving for
daily.
What is your
life mapping message? Ask yourself, who am I, what
was I born to do? We are not defined by what we have
become by earthly standards. We are somebody because we were
born. What were you told consistently from the time you can
remember? We can all reflect on the positive and negative
mapping messages that we have received from birth.
From birth, we all feel life is slowly eating
away at who we are or who we are trying to become. Many of us
feel internally lost because the world, our families, our so called
friends, strangers, people passing through our lives and our daily
experiences, good or bad, have all created who we are right now.
For many of us inner conflict
will occur when we live our lives from only a single mind set and not
from our hearts point of view. We must attempt to stay connected
to that something that rejuvenates us regularly and consistently for a
healthier and happier future. So how do we find that something?
Where do you begin to look?
We must look at how to connect, and for some
reconnect with our passion for life and learn to define the something
that will feed our spirit. We have all been given a special gift
in life. What is yours? Happiness occurs when your
greatest potential is in line with your true passion. It is then
that greatness, money or what ever your hearts desire is will follow.
GOD speaks to us in a whisper, but when you
don't listen GOD begins to shape our lives with what we have learned
to describe as life's hardships.
What is your personal life's message?
Are you living the life you truly love? So how do you live the
life that you want? Here are just a few suggestions on how to
live your best life.
- Learn to listen to your inner voice,
that is GOD speaking to you in your present circumstance or
situation.
- Be open and ready to change when you
get the message.
- Plan - have a plan for your life, write
it down.
- Focus on how you will accomplish your
best life, this is your primary job.
- Now, stick to the plan that you've
outlined for yourself. Remember, you can do this.
We don't live in a society
with a true rights of passage ritual which
would guide us into renewing ourselves as we mature from our youth
with ease and acceptance into adulthood and beyond. Growing up in a so called civilized
society is a hit or mis / hap hazard set of experiences for most
people.
The clear cut lines that define life experiences of
times gone by are slowly being erased. So we must learn how to
find and to connect with our inner selves by reaching out to others
with like minds and understanding where ever we find them.
In places of worship, on our jobs, in school,
in our families or where ever you feel a positive connection with
others that will feed your spirit in a positive way. Who you are
right now is who you take into every new encounter and experience that
you have. When a person meets you, they meet your past and your
present.
To be human is to be flawed, that is why we can not
judge others, or we to will be judged. So in spite of our flawed
nature, what message do you want to give the world and all of
the new people that you will meet? Everyday is a new day.
The choice is yours each day.
We must condition our mind, cultivate
and change our inner vision for success. We must tell ourselves
that we are worthy, even if we may not feel like we are. This
elevates your self esteem. Then make every effort to make what
you tell yourself true by changing your behavior. Change for each of us,
positive or negative, starts in our mind.
We must develop an attitude of faith
with positive actions. See yourself overcoming the
negative forces that come your way each day, because they will come.
Focus on the positive possibilities and solutions of every experience
that you have in your life. This is where your passion for
life can begin.
Emotional Intelligence.
We must learn to be emotionally intelligent with our daily decisions
and experiences. Emotional intelligence is the ability to learn
how to navigate our ongoing feelings, positive and negative, that we
have and deal with on a daily basis. We must learn to remain calm and
emotionally stable during difficult times. We can partner with
GOD on our own behalf, we then learn to be in the process of HIS will
for us. This can be the beginning of learning mental and emotional
survival skills for your life.
By the time we are a young adult, we know
already what we need to know in life to be successful. We know
good from evil and bad from good, because GOD has given us that innate
understanding. But it just needs to be awakened, renewed,
revitalized or rediscovered.
We need to gather from our personal
relevant life experiences what it took for us to make it through our
trials and our achievements. We must learn to own our
experiences and value them without becoming self focused, discouraged
or bewildered because no man or woman is an island, we truly do need
each other.
When we feel stuck in our actions or our
thinking, and we surely will experience this at some point in our
lives, we must learn to get unstuck. We must learn to overcome
our circumstances by reaching out and connecting to that higher power
and believing that what you need will be there waiting for you to
claim. This is the place where we can and must take
responsibility for our lives. Here is where we need to spend
time with ourselves and do some personal work from within.
We must recondition our thinking, reinvent
ourselves, relearn something that didn't work for us, reevaluate what
went wrong, critique what went right, reawaken our sleeping giant,
deal with your dark thoughts, get help if you need to (i.e. a personal
coach, pastoral or mental health counseling etc.) and access your true
feelings from every source within you.
And then change those negatives into positives
or turn on the light in that dark place within your mind and have a
light bulb moment. But when you have been in that negative inner
place for so long and you can't seem to find your way out, pray for
divine intervention and ask GOD to deliver you from your lack the
capacity or inability to do. GOD is the source of all things.
GOD is not looking for perfection in us, GOD is looking for potential
in us. Man (human) is only the source that GOD works through to
manifest his will. Just keep the faith and never loose hope.
Your loyalties. What gives your life
meaning? Where are your loyalties? Is it your job, your work
performance, your profession, the person that you keep trying to
please or pursue? That habit that you can't seem to break? Where
should your loyalties be? Your family, your children, your health,
your future, yourself? Your faith?
What are you here on this earth
to do? The road map for your personal journey is inside of "YOU."
The journey is yours to discover. Life is a journey and you choose to
create your own map (by using your own understanding) or you can use
the map (scripture) that GOD has given to you to traverse life's
countless experiences.
Either way it is a challenge, but with the
later you do have an advantage. When you have difficulty keeping the
faith, just remember GOD's divine plan and learn to hear his voice in
all of your experiences. Ask yourself, what is the world / life
trying to pull out of you holistically and creatively. What is your
passion?
What do your positive, spiritually enlightened feelings tell
you to do? Off the top of your head, answer this question. What will
fulfill your life right now. Not who, but what? That is your
beginning.
Free yourself. Don't
look at where you've been, look at where you can be. What you use to
be is over and what you will be has just begun.
Feel free to be just who
you are right now. Feeling that we have no choice in our lives is a
very paralyzing experience. But you do have a choice (remember, we
don't have control, only GOD does, but we do have choice).
Even if
you do nothing, that is a choice. So how do you begin to improve your
life from where you are? Start with one easy doable thing
that you know you can accomplish. Empower yourself with positive
actions behind the daily choice that you make to change your life.
What ever that is for you.
Then take time for
yourself regularly, take a walk, go fishing, pray, go swimming, go
play basketball, reconnect with an old friend, recommit to your family
by spending quality time with them, join a place of worship.
Just slow down, let go of the negatives and embrace the positives of
your life experiences, even if it is a very small thing.
But
most of all reconnect with "YOU." Do something that feeds your
faith, mind, spirit and soul and not just your physical body with
food, promiscuous behavior, drugs, alcohol or your personal negative
self soothing thing of choice.
So take time for your life, reshape your spirit by claiming or reclaiming
the essences of "YOU."
Joy and happiness occurs along your daily path, not in the future when
you retire or when you save enough money or when you meet that special
someone. And remember GOD is faithful and loves us
unconditionally even when we are faithless. Faith turns out
before you know how the situation will turn out.
So feel the love
right here, right now. Renew your dreams, renew your faith,
see your life's vision with new eyes and a new purpose from within and act on it each and everyday
;o). Because life is not a
dress rehearsal!
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